People & Relationships Phrasal Verbs — Step-by-Step Tutorial
B2-focused meanings, patterns (separable? object?), natural examples, common mistakes, and quick production prompts. Single-column layout for phones and desktops.
ask after (sb)
Core idea: request news about someone’s health or situation (friendly/caring).
Examples + quick explanations
- My aunt always asks after you.She wants news about you.
- Did anyone ask after Dad at the meeting?Checking if people requested news.
- Nobody asked after the interns, which felt cold.Shows lack of care.
Your turn (write 3+)
- When I phoned, Grandma ______ my exams.
- Colleagues often ______ new parents and their baby.
- At reunions, people usually ______ old friends.
bring up (sb/sth)
Core ideas: A) raise a child; B) introduce a topic for discussion.
Examples + quick explanations
- Her grandparents brought her up in Tehran.Raised a child.
- Can we bring up the budget issue now?Introduce a topic.
- Please don’t bring it up at dinner.Pronoun between verb and particle.
Your turn
- Who ______ you ______ when your parents worked abroad?
- I hate to ______ this, but the deadline is tomorrow.
- Let’s not ______ it ______ again.
fall for (sb/sth)
Core ideas: A) fall in love with someone; B) be tricked by / believe a lie.
Examples + quick explanations
- He fell for her after one conversation.Romantic sense.
- Don’t fall for phishing emails.Be tricked by scams.
- Millions fall for fake giveaways every year.General statement.
Your turn
- I almost ______ that message, but I checked the URL.
- She quickly ______ her lab partner.
- Tourists sometimes ______ overpriced tours.
fall out (with sb)
Core idea: argue and stop being friendly.
Examples + quick explanations
- They fell out over money.Argument → no longer friendly.
- I don’t want to fall out with my neighbor.With + person.
- Have you two fallen out again?Present perfect for recent situation.
Your turn
- We ______ over a tiny misunderstanding.
- Try not to ______ your teammates.
- Have you ever ______ a close friend?
get on (with sb)
Core ideas: A) have a good relationship; B) progress: “How are you getting on?”
Examples + quick explanations
- We get on really well at work.Good relationship.
- Do you get on with your new neighbor?With + person.
- How are you getting on with the project?Progress sense.
Your turn
- I didn’t ______ my first boss, but I learned a lot.
- We ______ surprisingly well despite our differences.
- How are you ______ with your thesis?
grow up
Core idea: become older; move from childhood to adulthood.
Examples + quick explanations
- She grew up in a coastal town.Place of childhood.
- Where did you grow up?Question form.
- They grew up together and stayed friends.Shared childhood.
Your turn
- I ______ in a multilingual family.
- My partner ______ near the capital.
- We ______ in the same neighborhood.
look down on (sb)
Core idea: think you are better than someone; feel contempt/patronize.
Examples + quick explanations
- Some people look down on those without degrees.Snobbish attitude.
- Don’t look down on service jobs.Advice sentence.
- Why do they look down on that accent?Question form.
Your turn
- It’s wrong to ______ people who earn less.
- She never ______ anyone for their background.
- Why do some students ______ vocational careers?
look up to (sb)
Core idea: admire and respect.
Examples + quick explanations
- I’ve always looked up to my older sister.Long-term admiration.
- Who do you look up to in your field?Question form.
- Many interns look up to her leadership style.Workplace context.
Your turn
- I ______ my coach for his patience.
- Children often ______ celebrities—sometimes unwisely.
- Who do you ______ professionally, and why?
make up (with sb)
Core idea: become friends again after an argument; reconcile.
Examples + quick explanations
- They argued but made up yesterday.Friendship restored.
- I want to make up with my brother before the wedding.With + person.
- Have you two made up yet?Present perfect.
Your turn
- Let’s ______ and move on.
- She tried to ______ with him after the meeting.
- Have they ______ since the argument?
pass away
Core idea: die (polite/euphemistic).
Examples + respectful notes
- Her grandfather passed away last spring.Polite tone.
- I’m sorry to hear your neighbor passed away.Condolence context.
- When did the author pass away?Neutral question.
Your turn
- My friend’s mentor ______ last year.
- The community gathered after the founder ______.
- We celebrated her life after she ______.
pick on (sb)
Core idea: keep treating someone badly/unfairly; bully; single out.
Examples + quick explanations
- Why do they always pick on him in class?Repeated unfair treatment.
- She felt picked on by her manager.Passive voice.
- Stop picking on your little brother.Imperative.
Your turn
- Teachers shouldn’t ______ students for accents.
- I felt ______ for asking too many questions.
- Comedians shouldn’t constantly ______ audience members.
put down (sb)
Core idea: criticize; make someone feel stupid; belittle.
Examples + quick explanations
- He often puts his teammates down in public.Belittling behavior.
- Don’t put her down for a small mistake.Imperative.
- Why do you put people down instead of helping?General question.
Your turn
- Please don’t ______ your colleagues—it harms morale.
- He kept ______ me in meetings, so I spoke to HR.
- Some leaders ______ others to feel strong.
settle down
Core ideas: A) become calm; B) start a stable, quieter life (often marry, stay in one place); C) settle down to = begin seriously.
Examples + quick explanations
- The class settled down after the bell.Became calm.
- They plan to settle down in Utrecht.Stable life in one place.
- I need to settle down to studying now.Begin seriously.
Your turn
- After traveling for years, they decided to ______.
- Let’s all ______ and begin the workshop.
- I must ______ to write the report.
stand up for (sb/sth)
Core idea: support/defend someone or a principle.
Examples + quick explanations
- We must stand up for fair pay.Defend a principle.
- She stood up for a classmate who was mocked.Defend a person.
- Will you stand up for me if I’m not there?Question form.
Your turn
- He finally ______ himself at work.
- We should ______ people who face discrimination.
- Would you ______ a colleague blamed unfairly?
be taken aback (by/at)
Core idea: be very surprised/shocked (usually passive form).
Examples + quick explanations
- I was taken aback by his sudden apology.Passive structure.
- The team was taken aback at the decision.At + noun phrase.
- Were you taken aback when they canceled?Question form.
Your turn
- We were ______ by the generous offer.
- She was ______ at how quickly plans changed.
- I’m always ______ when people speak so openly.
Confusable pairs (learn these contrasts)
- bring up vs grow up — caregivers bring up; children grow up.
- pick on vs pick up on — bully vs notice.
- look up to vs look up — admire vs search for information.
- stand up for vs stand up to — defend/support vs confront.
- make up (reconcile) vs make up (invent/constitute) — context decides.
- fall for (love) vs fall for (be tricked) — object type decides.
Mini-stories (context + multiple verbs)
A. Workplace dynamics
When Mia joined the design team, one senior colleague kept picking on her and putting her down. Most people stayed silent, but Arun stood up for her and the atmosphere changed. Mia realized some people look down on newcomers, while others just want to get on with everyone.
B. Family & friendships
Two brothers fell out over how to bring up their kids. Their mother often asked after each of them. Years later they made up at a school event as they watched their children grow up together.
C. Life events & values
After their mentor passed away, the group decided to settle down and finish the project. They were taken aback by winning a prize, and Eliza quietly admitted she had fallen for the keynote speaker’s kindness.
Practice A — Fill the gaps
Use the correct phrasal verb and form.
- Our neighbors always ______ my mother’s health.
- Please don’t ______ her in front of the class.
- He finally ______ himself when the manager criticized his team.
- They ______ last year but became friends again.
- I can’t believe you ______ that fake message—it was a scam.
- We ______ really well even though we disagree sometimes.
- The twins ______ in a bilingual household.
- Many students ______ the professor for her clarity.
- After years abroad, they decided to ______ in Rotterdam.
- The founder ______ peacefully at home.
- Why do some people ______ part-time workers?
- Stop ______ your little sister; it’s not funny.
- Could we ______ the budget issue before we leave?
- I was ______ by how honest her feedback was.
- Let’s ______ and move forward.
Practice B — Transformations
- He insulted me during the meeting. (use: put down)
- We became friends again after the argument. (use: make up)
- Who raised you? (use: bring up)
- Do you admire anyone in your field? (use: look up to)
- The class became calm after the bell. (use: settle down)
Practice C — Error correction
- She brought up in Madrid.
- Don’t look down people on.
- They fell out him after the game.
- Stop picking up on me.
- I was took aback by the offer.
Practice D — Dialogue completion
- A: “I heard you and Sara argued.” B: “Yes, but we ______ yesterday.”
- A: “The new intern keeps getting criticized.” B: “We should ______ her.”
- A: “Did anyone mention Grandma?” B: “Yes, Aunt May ______ her.”
- A: “Why is Leo so quiet?” B: “People constantly ______ him about his accent.”
- A: “Where did you spend your childhood?” B: “I ______ near the capital.”
Practice E — Choose one
- Pronoun placement with put down: a) put down him b) put him down
- Polite condolences: a) he died b) he passed away
- Defend someone: a) stand up for b) stand up to
- Inseparable: a) look up to b) bring up (a topic)
- Correct: a) We fell out with over money. b) We fell out over money.
Answer key (A–E)
A) 1 ask after 2 put down 3 stood up for 4 fell out 5 fell for 6 get on 7 grew up 8 look up to 9 settle down 10 passed away 11 look down on 12 picking on 13 bring up 14 (was/were) taken aback 15 make up
B) 1 He put me down… 2 We made up… 3 Who brought you up? 4 Do you look up to…? 5 The class settled down…
C) 1 She grew up… 2 Don’t look down on people. 3 They fell out with him… 4 Stop picking on me. 5 I was taken aback…
D) 1 made up 2 stand up for 3 asked after 4 pick on/are picking on 5 grew up
E) b, b, a, a, b
Extra Practice
Ten challenging exercises covering: ask after, bring up, fall for, fall out (with), get on (with), grow up, look down on, look up to, make up (reconcile), pass away, pick on, put down, settle down, stand up for, be taken aback. Everything stacks below one another; each task has a full key immediately after it.
Exercise 1 — Precision Cloze (form + meaning)
Choose the correct phrasal verb and form to complete each sentence. Focus on separability, tense, and nuance.
- When the CEO apologized publicly, the press corps was __________ the sudden change of tone. (A) taken aback by (B) taken aback to (C) took aback by
- After years of traveling, they finally decided to __________ in Porto. (A) settle down (B) settle down to (C) settle down with
- The committee didn’t want to __________ the old scandal, but a journalist insisted. (A) bring it up (B) bring up it (C) bring up
- Several staff members felt the supervisor regularly __________ them in front of clients. (A) put down (B) put them down (C) put down them)
- He __________ the fake giveaway because the URL looked authentic. (A) fell for (B) fell to (C) fell in for)
- Our neighbor always __________ your mother when we meet. (A) asks after (B) asks for (C) asks about after)
- It took months, but the brothers finally __________ and resumed their weekend hikes. (A) made up (B) made up with (C) made it up)
- Do you __________ your supervisor, or do you think her approach is overrated? (A) look up (B) look up to (C) look down on)
- Leon __________ in a small town and later moved to a capital city for university. (A) brought up (B) grew up (C) grew)
- The new student felt the popular kids were __________ him for his accent. (A) picking on (B) picking up on (C) picking at)
- We __________ surprisingly well despite our different political views. (A) get on (B) get on with (C) get along)
- It’s unfair to __________ people who choose vocational careers. (A) look up to (B) look down on (C) look down)
- The author __________ last winter; the literary community mourned her loss. (A) passed away (B) passed out (C) passed off)
- During the negotiation, Nora __________ her colleague’s proposal so harshly that the client frowned. (A) stood up for (B) fell out with (C) put down)
- They __________ over budget priorities but reconciled after clarifying responsibilities. (A) fell for (B) fell out (C) looked down)
Answer Key & Explanations
- A) taken aback by — Passive pattern: be + taken aback + by/at + noun; option C uses the rare active form; B needs a preposition after “taken aback”.
- A) settle down — Means establish a stable life in a place. “Settle down to” means “begin seriously (an activity).” “Settle down with” tends to mean “with a partner,” not a city.
- A) bring it up — Separable + pronoun middleware rule. B violates pronoun placement; C is incomplete (needs an object).
- B) put them down — Separable; pronoun must go between verb and particle. A lacks the object; C is the wrong order.
- A) fell for — “Fall for” = be tricked; B and C are ungrammatical.
- A) asks after — “Ask after” people’s news; “ask for” requests things; “ask about after” is non-idiomatic.
- A) made up — Intransitive for reconciliation; “make up with” is grammatical but needs the person (“with his brother”). “Make it up” means compensate.
- B) look up to — Three-part inseparable meaning “admire.” “Look up” = search; “look down on” = despise.
- B) grew up — Children do this. “Bring up” is what caregivers do; “grew” without “up” changes meaning.
- A) picking on — Means bully/single out. “Pick up on” = notice; “pick at” = nibble/touch.
- A) get on — Intransitive “have a good relationship.” “Get on with” needs a person after “with.” “Get along” is AmE near-synonym but the sentence doesn’t mark dialect; “get on” fits most naturally.
- B) look down on — Three-part, inseparable, expresses contempt. “Look down” alone is literal (direction). “Look up to” is the opposite.
- A) passed away — Euphemistic “die.” The others have different meanings.
- C) put down — Means criticize/belittle; “stand up for” = defend; “fall out with” = quarrel.
- B) fell out — Intransitive “argued and stopped being friendly.”
Exercise 2 — Transformations (formal ↔ phrasal)
Rewrite each sentence with the target phrasal verb, keeping meaning and register appropriate. Watch prepositions and pronoun placement.
- The panel criticized her in public. (use:
put down+ pronoun) - He finally defended himself during the meeting. (use:
stand up for) - Our grandparents raised us in Shiraz. (use:
bring up) - Please don’t mention the failed pilot project again. (use:
bring up) - The crowd was astonished at the ticket price. (use:
be taken aback) - We should reconcile before the weekend. (use:
make up) - Some executives despise junior roles. (use:
look down on) - Everyone admires that surgeon. (use:
look up to) - After moving around for years, they want to establish a stable life in Delft. (use:
settle down) - Several investors believed a false rumor. (use:
fall for)
Answer Key & Explanations
- The panel put her down in public. — Separable; pronoun must sit between verb and particle.
- He finally stood up for himself during the meeting. — Three-part, inseparable; object “himself” after the particle chain.
- Our grandparents brought us up in Shiraz. — Separable + pronoun placement; “brought up us” ✘.
- Please don’t bring it up again. — Topic = pronoun “it”; must be between verb and particle.
- The crowd was taken aback by the ticket price. — Passive frame: be + taken aback + by/at + noun.
- We should make up before the weekend. — Intransitive reconciliation; no object necessary.
- Some executives look down on junior roles. — Inseparable 3-part; expresses contempt.
- Everyone looks up to that surgeon. — Inseparable 3-part meaning “admire.”
- They want to settle down in Delft. — Place complements the intransitive verb.
- Several investors fell for a false rumor. — Inseparable; object follows entire verb phrase.
Exercise 3 — Error Diagnosis (what’s wrong & why?)
Each sentence has one error (form or meaning). Identify it and rewrite the sentence correctly.
- He looked up the new head of department; everyone says she’s inspiring.
- They made up with yesterday after the debrief.
- Stop picking up on your cousin for his clothes.
- Our coach brought us in a small border town.
- It took me aback when she apologized during the press conference.
- We fell out him over the schedule.
- Why do some people look down the service industry?
- Please bring up them in the minutes.
- After the ceremony, the founder passed off peacefully.
- I don’t get on him; he interrupts constantly.
Answer Key & Explanations
- Error: looked up = “search for info,” not “admire.” — Correct: “He looks up to the new head of department; everyone says she’s inspiring.”
- Error: “make up with” needs the person: who? — Correct: “They made up yesterday…” or “They made up with each other yesterday.”
- Error: “pick up on” = notice; bullying is “pick on.” — Correct: “Stop picking on your cousin for his clothes.”
- Error: Children grow up; caregivers bring up children; missing particle “up.” — Correct: “Our coach brought us up in a small border town.” (if coach was caregiver) or “We grew up in a small border town.”
- Error: Modern English prefers passive: “was taken aback.” — Correct: “I was taken aback when she apologized…”
- Error: Needs “with.” — Correct: “We fell out with him over the schedule.”
- Error: Missing “on.” — Correct: “Why do some people look down on the service industry?”
- Error: Pronoun placement with separable verb. — Correct: “Please bring them up in the minutes.”
- Error: Wrong phrasal verb. — Correct: “…the founder passed away peacefully.”
- Error: “get on with someone.” — Correct: “I don’t get on with him; he interrupts constantly.”
Exercise 4 — Nuance Multiple-Choice (context decides)
Pick the option that best fits the tone/register. Some distractors are grammatically possible but pragmatically weak.
- In a condolence email to a colleague: “I’m sorry to hear your father has ______.” a) died b) passed away c) passed out
- Headline style (neutral/factual): “Former minister ______ after long illness.” a) passes away b) dies c) falls for
- Mentor–mentee chat: “It meant a lot that you ______ me during that meeting.” a) stood up for b) looked up to c) put down
- Security advice: “Don’t ______ links in unexpected emails.” a) fall for b) look up to c) make up
- Team dynamics report: “Two departments ______ over ownership of the dataset.” a) fell for b) fell out c) made up
- Magazine profile: “Young coders ______ the open-source pioneer.” a) get on with b) look up to c) look down on
- Manager feedback: “Avoid ______ junior staff in public; give private, constructive advice.” a) putting down b) bringing up c) asking after
- Classroom management: “The room will ______ once we start the timer.” a) settle down b) stand up for c) take aback
- Family history essay: “My parents ______ me to value curiosity.” a) grew up b) brought up c) fell for
- Peer culture critique: “Some students ______ people who choose apprenticeships.” a) look down on b) look up to c) get on with
Answer Key & Explanations
- b) passed away — Polite euphemism in condolences; a) is blunt; c) is unrelated (fainting).
- b) dies — Headlines favor concise neutrality; a) is softer and more personal.
- a) stood up for — Means “defended; advocated.”
- a) fall for — “Be tricked by” phishing; b) and c) do not fit.
- b) fell out — Argue + stop being friendly; a) = be deceived; c) = reconcile.
- b) look up to — “Admire.”
- a) putting down — “Belittling.”
- a) settle down — Means become calm; b)/c) don’t match context.
- b) brought up — Caregivers do this; “grow up” is what children do.
- a) look down on — Expresses contempt toward apprenticeships.
Exercise 5 — Collocation & Syntax Lab
Insert the correct particle(s) and place pronouns where necessary. Avoid literal/physical meanings.
- Don’t ________ (put / me) in front of clients.
- Who ________ (bring) you ________ in the countryside?
- He has always ________ (look / to) his elder sister.
- The class will ________ after the bell.
- People shouldn’t ________ (look / on) others for their accent.
- They ________ (fall) over the timeline but apologized later.
- When she apologized, I ________ (take / by) the sincerity.
- Scammers hope you’ll ________ their urgent tone.
Answer Key & Explanations
- put me down — Separable + pronoun mid-position.
- brought you up — Separable; “bring up someone.”
- looked up to — Three-part inseparable; cannot split with object before “to.”
- settle down — Intransitive calming.
- look down on — Three-part inseparable; “on” required.
- fell out — Intransitive quarrel; add “with + person” if specified.
- was taken aback by — Passive + preposition “by/at.”
- fall for — “Be deceived by” urgent tone.
Exercise 6 — Discourse Repair (paragraph editing)
Each paragraph contains 6 errors (form/meaning/register) with our target verbs. Rewrite it correctly.
6A. When I joined the lab, the seniors kept picking up on me during meetings. I tried to stand up to my supervisor, but nobody asked about after my health when I got sick. I nearly fell to a phishing link. Later, I made up with and moved on. Now I look up our head of department and want to be like her.
6B. The cousins fell out him over inheritances after their grandmother passed off. Years later, they finally made up with in the café where they had brought up together. The barista asked after the project and seemed took aback by their laughter.
Answer Key & Explanations
Why: “pick on” = bully; “stand up for” = defend; “ask after” people; “fall for” scams; reconciliation intransitive “made up”; admiration “look up to.”
Why: “fall out with + person”; euphemism “passed away”; children “grow up”; “ask after” people (not “project”); passive “was taken aback.”
Exercise 7 — Dialogue Completions (register-sensitive)
Complete each dialogue with a natural line using the target verb. Include pronouns correctly and keep tone realistic.
- A: “Did anyone mention your dad at the reunion?” B: “Yes, a few classmates ______.” (ask after)
- A: “I can’t believe the influencer giveaway.” B: “Check the URL—don’t ______ it.” (fall for)
- A: “Your manager mocked you again.” B: “Next time I’ll ______ myself.” (stand up for)
- A: “Who raised you while your parents worked abroad?” B: “My aunt ______.” (bring up)
- A: “You seemed shocked by the announcement.” B: “I ______ the sudden resignation.” (be taken aback by)
- A: “Why are the team chats so tense?” B: “Two developers ______ over code reviews.” (fall out)
- A: “Do you get along with your new neighbor?” B: “Surprisingly, we ______ really well.” (get on)
- A: “Stop humiliating your brother.” B: “You’re right—I shouldn’t ______ him.” (put down)
- A: “Are you two still angry?” B: “No, we ______ yesterday.” (make up)
- A: “Which teacher inspired you most?” B: “Ms. Yoon—I still ______ her.” (look up to)
Answer Key & Explanations
- “…a few classmates asked after (him).” — People-focused “ask after.”
- “…don’t fall for it.” — Warning against being deceived.
- “…I’ll stand up for myself.” — Three-part, inseparable.
- “My aunt brought me up.” — Separable + pronoun mid.
- “I was taken aback by the sudden resignation.” — Passive + “by.”
- “…two developers fell out over code reviews.” — Intransitive quarrel; reason with “over.”
- “…we get on really well.” — Relationship sense.
- “…I shouldn’t put him down.” — Separable + pronoun mid.
- “…we made up yesterday.” — Intransitive reconciliation.
- “…I still look up to her.” — Admiration; inseparable.
Exercise 8 — Guided Paraphrase (express the idea with the target verb)
Rewrite each sentence using the phrasal verb in brackets without changing meaning or tone.
- He publicly belittles junior designers. (
put down) - After months of tension, the two editors became friendly again. (
make up) - My cousin thinks he’s superior to people without degrees. (
look down on) - Our neighbors always want news about your mother. (
ask after) - I almost believed the fake “tax refund” email. (
fall for) - Who was your primary caregiver during childhood? (
bring up) - The class calmed down after the fire drill. (
settle down) - Do you admire any public-interest lawyers? (
look up to) - We argued over deadlines and stopped speaking for a week. (
fall out) - After many short contracts, she wants a quieter life in Ghent. (
settle down)
Answer Key & Explanations
- “He puts junior designers down in public.” — Separable; object between.
- “After months of tension, the two editors made up.” — Intransitive reconciliation.
- “My cousin looks down on people without degrees.” — 3-part inseparable.
- “Our neighbors always ask after your mother.” — People-focused inquiry.
- “I almost fell for the fake ‘tax refund’ email.” — Deception sense.
- “Who brought you up?” — Separable, pronoun mid.
- “The class settled down after the fire drill.” — Calming down.
- “Do you look up to any public-interest lawyers?” — Admiration.
- “We fell out over deadlines and stopped speaking for a week.” — Intransitive + “over.”
- “After many short contracts, she wants to settle down in Ghent.” — Stable life in a place.
Exercise 9 — Register Switch (formal writing makeover)
Replace the bolded phrasal verb with a more formal alternative suitable for a scholarship application or news article. Keep meaning.
- The volunteers stood up for local refugees during the council meeting.
- The spokesperson said the founder passed away last night.
- Two board members fell out over the audit timeline.
- The influencer put down critics in a livestream.
- We aim to settle down in Leuven after graduation.
- Our professor is someone first-year students look up to.
- I nearly fell for a message that claimed to be from HR.
- Neighbors always ask after the new baby.
- Hiring managers sometimes look down on gaps in a CV.
- The parties eventually made up after the dispute.
Answer Key & Explanations
- advocated for / defended — Formal equivalents; “stood up for” suits speech.
- died — Neutral headline style; “passed away” is euphemistic/personal.
- quarreled / had a disagreement / became estranged — Depending on strength desired.
- disparaged / belittled / denigrated — Formal verbs for public criticism.
- establish a stable life / take up residence — Objective register.
- is widely admired by — Avoids conversational tone.
- was almost deceived by — Formal, impersonal phrasing.
- enquire about — Polite/formal inquiry.
- are prejudiced against / disparage — Formalize the negative attitude.
- reconciled — One-word formal counterpart.
Exercise 10 — Integrated Writing Challenge
Write a 180–220-word email to a community manager. Include at least eight of the target verbs naturally. Purpose: report bullying in a local forum, ask about an elderly neighbor’s health, and suggest a calmer tone for future discussions.
Model Answer & Commentary
Model:
Dear Ms. Pinto,
I’m writing about recent posts in the gardening forum. Two long-time members have fallen out over tool recommendations, and one of them keeps putting down newcomers. Yesterday several users were taken aback by a sarcastic comment that singled out a teenager; in fact, others began standing up for him because the older member seems to look down on younger voices. Could we remind everyone to settle down before replying and to avoid picking on individuals?
On a different note, a few neighbors have asked after Mr. van Leeuwen; we heard he passed away last month, but we might have fallen for a rumor. If he’s simply unwell, many of us look up to his community work and would like to send a card. Finally, I don’t want to bring up the composting controversy again, but it may help if the moderators post clear guidelines so we can all get on better.
Best regards,
Farah
- fallen out / putting down / picking on describe conflict precisely; separable forms used correctly with pronouns.
- taken aback shows community reaction; passive structure correct.
- stand up for conveys defense; three-part verb kept inseparable.
- look down on expresses contempt; settle down proposes de-escalation.
- asked after / passed away / fall for contrast rumor vs polite reality.
- look up to adds positive valuation; bring up shows caution; get on expresses better relations.